Cherished

Had been a daughter
 been a daughter -in -law
am a wife
 am a mother
 am a mother -in- law
everywhere I had been
 I am being
 not a remarkable one
not even one among many
 never a favourite of my mother
 nor had been one to my mother in law
 not so to my spouse
 not hailed by my children
 so much  the same to my daughter s in law
well, have forgotten one more role
 being a grandmother
  I am cherished  by my grand children
 that would be fair enough
 having achieved my goal
 at least in the end .